Love your Child? #Respect their DREAMS...

    All the parents love their kids except some odd ones. Is it not? The answer is obviously 'Yes'. Our parents are read y to sacrifice any thing for us. They leave their joy and happiness and try to see the same in their child. Some times they are even ready to sacrifice their livelihood for the sake of their loved ones. Especially in our country the relationships are given more importance which is one of the reason for unique culture which made our country an ambassador of human relations. Such true relation ships are becoming victims of hatred feelings arising among the members of single family. This is due to the lac of understanding between the family members. There is a huge communication gap between the parents and children especially in urban areas because of the busy schedule of the parents. Many parents are likely to send their children to hostels for education at a very young age, not to blame them, it is may be because of the busy schedule but most important thing that they need at that age is Parent's Love and Guidance to build their character . More over they should maintain a close relationship such that they share every thing that encounter in their lives. These days kids are quite different they are likely to share things with their friends rather than with their parents. This is due to the increasing communication gap between them. Sometimes Children are prone to evil practices such as smoking, drinking and sometimes victims of dangerous drugs. Some parents in order to control their child they impose several restrictions on them, finally result in the rise of hatred feelings. In some cases due to severe pressure from home and educational institutions they may commit suicides. I saw many people who are so much restricted at home finally when they get freedom in the engineering they misuse it. Understanding your child mentality and to guide him according to it is the most important aspect that a parent should take care. Parents may control their children by restrictions sometimes but it may result in comfortableness and hatred in the young minds. I saw students in 10 std loosing their valuable career due to many distractions. Some of them have neither respect towards their parents nor love due to the restrictions that they have imposed. The only complete solution is to make their kids understand the LOVE and CARE that they show on them so that they never cross their limits. They are parents who try to impose their dreams into the life of their loved ones, they never care about their interests, this is very wrong practice, may be they want their child to play safe but they need to respect their ideas and if they are on a wrong track they may try and convince them but finally they should allow their kids to do what they wanted to do. I think the key to success is interest and dedication which is only achieved only when one does what he wanted to do. I saw many sad students who ruined their career by choosing a wrong group in engineering as they are forced to do. Who knows they might have performed better if they had taken what they wanted. I saw engineers who never wanted to be so, saw children who loves sports never allowed to play, saw artists gave up their talent, saw athletes who are forced to work sitting in front of computers . May be INDIA is no where near China and USA in Olympic medals tally because our athletes are running in our country for their dream to become true. Paying tribute to my parents who supported me to chose my career, my goal and always on my side in my hard times I SALUTE THEM. Hope all the parents try and understand their children and making our country a heaven of relationships. Jai Hind. Satyamevajayate.