S += He!!

                     Wondering about the title?? Do you remember C or C++. For those who are familiar with the C language may have no confusion about the title. For those who are new what I mean is ' She =He'. I wanted to express my views on gender equality. Here is what I feel.. Did anyone have problems with your mom or dad? Never. Then why we have problems with opposite gender of same age group?? Sometimes we try to dominate each other, sometimes we hate each other sometimes we try to abuse them. Why?? Today in India We see many cases on women abuse. These are due to lac of communication between the opposite genders. This creates discomfort among the opposite genders and lead to many unfortunate situations. A healthy competition between them is good for their development but too much of this creates domination and hatred. India had witnessed several social evils like child marriages, sati, girl infanticides etc. All these are due to disrespect on women. Unfortunately some of these social evils are still in practice and new one's have also emerged. There is a need to drive these social evils from our society. This can only happen when we don't try and dominate each other but unite and revolt against these social evils. Upcoming generations should be taught respecting the opposite gender and should create a friendly atmosphere where we could see equality. Especially in schools the differences in boys and girls should be avoided. We also should change our attitude when we see people of opposite genders spending time. Only understanding each other can avoid anti social ideas in their mind, this can only happen on spending time with each other. I saw many parents, teachers do not want their children talking with opposite genders. They see this as if they have committed crime. This is the reason why most of the young mind's try to hide their relationships from their parents. I don't blame the parents or teachers but it is the society which created a gap between us. This mindset should be removed and a friendly atmosphere should be maintained between the opposite genders. Let me share an incident... Last year during the time of a fest one of my friend practicing a drama with his seniors as the have to perform the same on the stage later on that day. Unfortunately in a scene there happened to be a boy and three girls. Let me say you the characters also boy, his mother,two sisters. More over my friend and those seniors are like that of siblings so close to each other. They are practicing the scene, suddenly a faculty came and slapped my friend and said what are doing? I don't know what he was thinking? We never complained about him to higher officials as we understood his mindset. He was brought up like that, It is not his mistake. This is due to lac of understanding. When I said shared the same with my professor he said me an other incident, one of his colleague always cursed boys and girls when he saw them together not directly but within himself. My professor asked him why did he do so. He replied that he never spoke with a girl in his college life as they are fined if they talk to opposite gender. This created a wrong idea in his mind that talking to a opposite gender is a crime. It is not his fault. The management of the college has to be blamed for this. I saw many colleges and schools still creating the gap between the opposite genders. This may cause severe imbalance in the society. I request those institutions to create friendly atmosphere among them and maintain the status of equality. Let us respect the opposite genders and maintain peace in our society. This will help to take one more step further for our country in maintaining our cultural heritage. Jai Hind. Satyamevajayate.